Build New Habits

As the year comes to a close, allow yourself some time to reflect on the people, places, and things that were instrumental in creating your most productive moments. This can be challenging. After all, no one will ever be perfect. Fight the urge to negatively critique yourself though your previous flaws. Build new habits. Teach yourself to celebrate your wins; this includes improving your strategy by excepting the mistakes that lead to your greatest lessons over the past 12 months. Admit that you don’t have it all figured out. Once you identify the gaps in your thinking, perhaps your curiosity may lead you toward a new path of enlightenment and information.

Thanksgiving Gratitude

When you feel like everything around you is uncomfortably closing in on your ability to stretch beyond the limits of your creativity, smile and breathe deeply. Do all things well and without regret. This holiday season is a great opportunity to let go of what didn’t happen. Give yourself the gift of forgiveness and offer it with love to anyone who has brought you frustration. The biggest moments are the ones we think about the most. So, remind yourself lovingly to let things go.

Keep a list of things you’ve survived that make you worthy of every win you’ve ever achieved. Keep a statement of hope on your lips and in your mind reminding you that greatness is in everything and not just everyone. There are so many things to be grateful for that stretch beyond surviving the uncertainty of the economy, starting a new career, moving to a new town, or hosting your first family holiday gala. Believe with purpose that your days will be fruitful and strong. Speak as many kind words as you can to everyone you meet. Share a smile. All the disappointments you encountered through out the year is helping you bring your life into perspective. Invite laughter in your life and choose joy. Develop your own recipe for gratitude.